Hello, dear visitors of the blog! Full-fledged and happy relationship is impossible to imagine without intimate life. To the satisfaction of the woman in the bed depends on the emotional balance and behavior.
But why, in the more harmonious, at first glance, the relationship, sometimes lacking libido? In fact, the reasons of this phenomenon is more than enough. Here plays a huge role, such as a physiological factor and psychological.
The lack of libido in women is not a reason to blame the spouses. Today, I'm going to help you understand why.
During the orgasm, from a physiological point of view, occurs a contraction of the uterus and of the vagina, which ends with a satisfaction. The partners may live for a act of one or several orgasms.
If a woman is in bed, has no feelings, then it is called glacial. Some frigid women there are full of disgust and sexual process.
Libido - call sexual desire. His rise to the age of about twenty years of age, sometimes earlier.
The sexual life of the partners has its origin in the desire, which is formed in the brain. Among the stronger sex, this is shown through the visual, a part of the population is associated with romance and actions. After desire comes arousal, then starts the process of the close and ends with the orgasm. The most serious is the problem, it will be more difficult the therapy.
Why the urge in women?
I've already talked about the fact that the reasons of the absence of the libido are divided into two categories. Consider physiological side:
- The failure of the hormonal system. For the libido responds to a hormone called testosterone. Today, there is a tendency to decrease. Of the female part of the population decline in libido may be due to the influence of the hormone prolactin. In the period of lactation in women, there is a loss of libido.
- The age of the process. The loss or weakening of libido occurs in women during menopause. At this time, the functional capacity of the ovary begins to decline, resulting estrogens are produced in smaller quantities. The process itself is painful due to a lack of lubrication. Many stop to lead a sexual life, while continuing to live a normal life, and to rejoice.
- Pathological states. This is the case of conditions such as diabetes, diseases of the genito-urinary organs, and many others.
- The mode of life. Nicotine, alcohol, drugs inhibit sex drive. They have an impact on the nerve endings in the brain that are responsible for the libido. The priority is the satisfaction of the listed habits.
- The reduction of the musculature of the vagina, which can be painful for both partners. Often, the cause of such a state serves as a history of sexual violence.
- Sexual of the disease. They often create discomfort in the external zone of the intimate organs and the vagina.
The psychological aspect
Women often have a desire in relation with the past of serious cuts situations such as, the failure of the first sexual relations, violence, the birth of the child.
A lot of women, who grew up very strictly, they are ashamed to be open with their feelings and emotions of your partner. They are afraid to look promiscuous, etc, Often encounter cases where, after marriage, women have sex in the dark or under clothing. Also lost the desire for the hidden reason of resentment to his former partner.
At the beginning of the meeting, and in a first time, the relations between people there is an interest and a strong attraction. It promotes the chemical processes in the brain, as a result, more and more passion, and increases the desire. All of this led to the sex of a process without the need to activate the desire.
The problem of identity, which have arisen due to the imposed opinion of society, the parents and other people, and the result of a psychological trauma, the time may overlap a strong attraction to a partner. But with time, that spark disappears, and the problems return.
Ongoing conflicts and disagreements between couples met in the course of life, play an important role in the loss of sexual desire. Some people have a tendency to long to keep his resentment, that completely turns off the sexual attraction.
For a great part of the population, it is important to receive compliments, flowers and gifts, even after marriage, and many years of common life. In women there is a great need in the emotional development of the relationship to sexual contacts. In men, this necessity appears after the intima.
Love and sex must be in harmony in the relations. If in a couple, dominates, more platonic and spiritual connection, then the sexual desire of a share on the second plane, and vice-versa.
Over the years, between people there is the trust, mutual understanding, but suffers intimate life. In their relations, the people are poor, they can be arranged in the vicinity of someone else, while remaining faithful to its partner.
Plays an important role as the physical attraction. After the wedding, the women and the men should not stop to take care of. They must uphold the standards of hygiene, monitor weight, the hairstyle, the makeup, the style clothing, the condition of the skin, etc
In a relationship, where do not know what that one is inspired by the look, the facial expressions, the movements, the smell of the partner, not satisfaction. Distinguish between some parts of the DNA that create the attraction between the partners. So, we are most drawn to sexy people who have custom and abroad for us to style and behavior, that we like a lot. But the interests and points of view on the life between these individuals will not be identical.
The solution of the problem
The woman can't always understand the lack of desire. The ladies have a lot of questions on how not to wear the wedding before the divorce. For someone the best solution would be to visit a psychologist or a sex therapist.
The specialist study, you will talk to consider the problem from all angles, moves the cause of the loss of libido, and find an efficient way to solve this problem. This may not be the consultations, the different therapeutic techniques in the manipulation, dance, motor action, and others. The professional determines that the client needs to work.
The treatment of reduced libido is a certain complexity. If you have managed to properly install the reason, then you need the therapy of the disease.
In all cases, it is useful to start living a healthy life and stop consuming alcohol, sleeping and remain in a state of calm mind. All these actions aim to improve the hormonal levels in a natural way. I myself have obtained excellent results in this plan, so I know what I'm talking about.
It is useful to perform a series of exercises to strengthen the coccygienne of the musculature and the pelvic floor muscles. It stimulates arousal by stimulating blood circulation. Also Kegel exercises can be every day to for this purpose.
And finally you reveal another way of finding the sexual interest of your partner in a natural way. You just need to do yoga.
As is well known, all yoga exercises are accompanied by a profound knowledge of cause breathing. Do before going to sleep is a complex exercise, a little exercise, breathe properly, and after, even abdominal breathing to use during intimacy, you will be amazed to see how it works!
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